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      <image:caption>I was face to face with situations that, depending on the way I chose to proceed, would either allow me to be the woman I claim I want to be, or allow me to remain comfortably in the familiarity of the woman I have outgrown.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"But shame will do that to a person if it goes unchecked long enough. It will seep into the crevices of your life and multiply like a cancer, until it sucks every last ounce of self esteem and self worth from you."</image:caption>
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